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What's Your Flavor?

John Ploetz

What’s your flavor? Just like everyone has a favorite flavor they enjoy eating, each person at any point in time is a unique flavor. Different elements go in to creating that flavor. Just as those favorite flavors you like to enjoy change from time to time, the unique ingredients that create your flavor change over time. Unique flavors are what add spice and excitement to an otherwise mundane life style. So, it just makes sense that you should know the current recipe of the ingredients that creates your personal flavor. To better understand who you are, it is important to take a litmus test of yourself from time to time and determine what flavor you are at that moment. Doing it can help you understand a little bit more about yourself. It doesn’t take much effort, just a little time to think about it; if you aren’t quite sure how to go about it, write down the answers to these simple questions:

1.      What do you like doing? Focus a little bit. What are the one or two things in life that you really like doing? Don’t get hung up on the details. Think about it in general terms, but also think about why you like doing it?

2.      Who are the people you like to do things with on a regular basis? Who are those favorite people that you most like to do things with or go out with, is it a group of people or a single person? What is it about them that makes you want to do things with them?

3.      What motivates you at work? I say work, because it’s a place that you must show up at on a regular basis. You may not like everything about work, but think what gets you up in the morning and pushes you to go to work; what motivates you to want to be there in the first place?

4.      How do you solve problems? What steps do you take to solve problems that come up? Do you have a specific step process? Or, do you randomly reach decisions, moving along without thinking about how you make those decisions.

5.      What makes you happy? Why are you happy and when are you happy? What does it take to make you happy? If you say nothing, you’re not being truthful with yourself. There are always somethings, big or small, that make a person happy.

6.      What gets you the most upset? What gets you riled up? Think about what are those certain triggers that set you off.

7.      How do you best like to relax? What gets you the most relaxed? How do you reach that state where you can let everything go and just sit back and enjoy the moment?

8.      What is your favorite hobby? What’s your favorite way to pass time when you don’t have to do something important? It is different than relaxing but sometimes the two go hand in hand.

I think most of us would be surprised with our answers to some of these questions. By taking this self assessment, the goal is to better understand the unique person we are, at a specific point in time. If we take this self assessment, let’s say on a yearly basis, and then review past self assessments that we’ve done, we can begin to get a better idea of who we are and where we are heading. I think you will find if you do take the time to answer the questions truthfully you might just get a better understanding of yourself and where you are headed; and more importantly come up with ways to improve your life to make it more enjoyable.

Ritual of Writing

John Ploetz

How do writers come up with what they eventually create? There definitely is a process. You might say the writing process actually becomes a ritual of writing? Most people would say it all starts with an idea. Ideas though come and go; they change and continually flow into new ideas. Most times the idea you start with in your mind isn’t the idea that you end up with on paper. No, I think writing is more than just a process of putting ideas into words on paper. Writing is a process, a mechanism a writer uses to filter, catalog and explain how the writer views the world he or she lives in. Good writers create their own writing ritual.

Some might say that a writer’s main goal is to write something so it is seen by others. I would argue that the writer cares more about the ritual of writing itself. Through writing, the writer attempts to make sense out of his or her existence. The process of writing gives the writer meaning. Then you might ask what are the elements of this ritual? Well I write; I may not be the best writer, but I hope I’m not the worst writer either. So, maybe I can share the ritual that I use when I write.

1. I start each day the same way. A consistent start helps set the proper mechanics in motion to begin the daily writing process. A consistent start leads to a consistent ability to write. For most people like myself, it starts with a cup of coffee, for a few less daring souls it starts with a can of pop. Next it’s important to write using the same location. Writing at the same time each day is also important, if you can afford that luxury.

2. Ideas have to come from somewhere. A spark maybe from something you hear or read about. The best ideas are those born out of memories mixed with new information, a personal touch to real life events. An outside source gives a spark to existing thoughts, that can start a flame of words inside you.

3. Don’t limit your interaction with the world. You aren’t the center of ideas. You come up with ideas and write because you are given ideas from the world around you. Seek out those new and interesting topics.

4. Creating connections between ideas. All around us are bits of information; websites, news feeds, magazine and newspaper articles; friends and relatives talk to us about what concerns them; we overhear conversations at the grocery store or at a restaurant. Be open; listen to what is going on around you. Ideas are the building blocks to forming written concepts, but more detailed information is always needed to connect them.

5. Free your mind. Continually change up what your senses come in contact with. New sounds from the outdoors can trigger ideas; cooking in your kitchen can trigger an idea, watching an old movie or a new movie can put new thought twists on old memories. Let your senses take you to new ideas and new streams of thought.

6. Never forget you’re an observer. Reflect on the little, the simple things around you; the peeling paint on a fence; the distant voices of children playing; the shape of a passing cloud. Be willing to let your mind wander along simple streams of thought. Allowing your mind to move along connected but unrelated chains of thought helps train your mind to develop topics into more complex written words.

7. Develop a demanding form of style in your writing. Create and continue to develop your own style of writing. You must define your own art of writing. It must be something that you own. You must set your own standards and expectations.

8. The topic you write about must inspire you. Whether you pick the topic or it is given to you, find a way to get the topic to inspire you. Find something that motivates you to write about that topic.

9. Find satisfaction in completing what you have written. Know when to finish crafting what you write. Being happy and content with what is written is part of the writing process. Find satisfaction in the process as well as the product that is created. The satisfaction may be short lived, but it is necessary to savor; it is one of the main rewards of writing. If you don’t find satisfaction in your work, you won’t develop a thick skin to deflect critics nor a strong sense of appreciation for your own writing abilities.

10. In the end the act of writing is what matters most for the writer. What keeps the writer writing is the inner drive, the need to keep writing. By understanding this, the writer should take steps to fine tune and improve the process to improve as a writer.

The ritual of writing is a set of skills that a writer constantly hones. A true writer needs to be receptive to outside ideas, wants to create and most of all can create inner passion through writing. In the end the need to write isn’t as much about creating a product as it is about the ritual of writing.

Stop Fixing Start Enjoying

John Ploetz

We all can recall something that we attempted to fix at one time or another in our lives. We remember it because in a unique way we were able to fix it or try as we might we never were able to fix it. Some of us are better at fixing things, than others; some of us have certain talents that allow us to fix certain types of things better than others; and still others try to fix everything. The fact is, living is all about trying to fix things that we perceive to be broken. Some things like our car or physical things in our home are easy to determine if they are broken and in need of repair. The hard part is determining whether to do the repairs ourselves or bring in someone to do the repairs for us.

In other areas of our lives the need to fix and the process of how we go about fixing is more uncertain. We spend our lives trying to resolve, fix, issues. Every day we are fixing something; at work we continually use our fixing skills to plan, begin and then work through tasks; at home we apply our fixing skills to deal with emergencies that arise with kids, family and personal relationships. We are forced to be fixers whether we want to or not. We are in a constant state of fixing in our world of flux. Many of us settle into a life focused on fixing whatever we encounter. We reach a point when we’re outside of our comfort zone if we aren’t fixing. But life shouldn’t just be about fixing. We also need to take time to enjoy the moment and find satisfaction in what we’ve already fixed or what we don’t need to fix. Think about how your life would be different if you momentarily stopped fixing.

1. Shift gears. Change your thought process. Focus on what you have, not on what you think you need to get done or where you need to go. Take some time off from “fixing”.

2. Be Content. Be comfortable with where you are at the moment. Don’t let your thought process try to move you into the future. For now, just think about your current state in life and what you have to be thankful for.

3. Live for the moment. Enjoy the moment you are in. Do not think outside the moment. Let the past and future fall away.

4. Focus. Focus on not changing anything about yourself. Hold on to the here and now. Don’t let the future or past in. Don’t allow a fix mode to take over your brain.

5. Adapt. Change your thinking for the moment. Think about what it would be like to not fix things. Could you live a lifestyle without fixing? That maybe far fetched, but the goal is to think about why you fix the things you do. Think about whether you should change the way you fix things or what you fix.

6. Solitude. Be at peace with yourself. Think about the moment you finally fix something you have been working on for a while. If you’re done fixing can you enjoy who you are at that moment. You are only at that moment once in your life. Can you enjoy it? It’s like hiking up to the top of a mountain. Enjoy the view, sit and ponder where you are. Don’t rush to climb back down.

7. Complacency. Take the load off your back and let your guard down for a while. Feel the power of not chasing to correct what you find fault with in you and around you. Let it fall away. Ask yourself how can you change from being a constant “fixer” to a person that can enjoy what has already been fixed or for that matter never fixed.

Yes, we do need to fix things in our lives. But, we shouldn’t get caught up in the process of fixing things simply for the sake of fixing them. We need to understand the substance behind why we fix things. When we take a moment to think about it, we may just get to know ourselves a little better. Can you accept the challenge of enjoying the fruits of your labor and allow yourself to get lost in a complacent world of solitude? Try it sometime, you may just enjoy the break from your world of endless broken things that need fixing.